Thursday, March 6, 2008

8 Things

This morning in my boredom, I was reading random articles from msn.com and I came across this one titled "8 Things No One Tells You About Marriage." I'm not married, but I have been with Keith for over 3 years and I hope to marry him in the near future. The advice in this article can really pertain to any long term, committed relationship. It gave me some good advice and made me grateful for my wonderful boyfriend.

1. You will look at the person lying next to you and wonder, Is this it? Forever?
2. You'll work harder than you ever imagined.
3. You will sometimes go to bed mad (and maybe even wake up madder).
4. You will go without sex — sometimes for a long time — and that's okay.
5. Getting your way is usually not as important as finding a way to work together.
6. A great marriage doesn't mean no conflict; it simply means a couple keeps trying to get it right.
7. You'll realize that you can only change yourself.
8. As you face your fears and insecurities, you will find out what you're really made of.